On a side note, I wanted to share another Jeff memory with this post that I didn't mention in my official eulogy. One of my fondest memories of Jeff was during his Bay Area visit. He arrived on the same night as my second date with Raquel. Once I informed him of this, here is the conversation that followed:
Jeff: "ooooh, you're going out with that girl again? nice. should I take a cab back from the airport instead?"
Me: "don't be silly Jeff. my family comes first".
Jeff: "it's ok. perhaps I should find a hotel for the week? ;)"
Me: "Cut it out. It's just a second date. That's not how I roll".
The second date went well enough that Raquel and I continued to text throughout the week. When Jeff noticed, he started reading her texts and my responses over my shoulder. As usual, he couldn't help but tease me about how I have no game. So, he then proceeded to act as my Cyrano de Bergerac and fed me my flirty lines. Raquel and I have been together for almost three years now, and I'd like to think Jeff had a hand in it in the beginning. But, when I asked Raquel if any of his lines actually worked, she thought I just wanted to be friends during those texts. Ouch. Sorry Jeff, guess we both didn't have game.